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It is Thursday and we had decided to wait on breaking the water bag until Friday but in the meantime we wanted to continue to do what we could. So we went for another long walk around 5:00 pm. Almost as soon as we left Amy's contractions started happening on a very regular basis. By the time we got home, 2 hours later, we called Diane (our midwife) who came over and told us we were officially in labor.


Diane said we would probably have Carter abut the same time the following day so we settled down into the night expecting things to mainly continue as they were. Instead Amy's contractions quickly became much stronger (meaning active labor) and when we called Diane she immediately came right back. We all prepared to have a baby by breakfast


Amy spent a lot of time in the shower and I spent a lot of time pushing on her tailbone. I think I could do it professionally now. Around 4 am we got into the tub. Amy says that the contractions were unbearable out of the tub and that once she got into the tub it was much better (though probably still completely unbearable if it was me). We worked through transition in the tub and then around 6 am she started pushing.


I guess 2 hours spent pushing is considered a long time. After 2 hours of Amy pushing, Carter still wasn't anywhere near crowning. Diane said that the only thing keeping us from going to the hospital was 2 things. One, his heart rate never dipped even for a second. They would check it after every push and it was always perfect. The other reason was that each time Diane was about to suggest going to the hospital Amy was able to move him forward just a bit more.


At 8 am it was decided that maybe a change of scenery would help. We moved onto a birth stool to see if gravity would help. It didn't. 20 minutes later we were in bed and almost immediately we saw lots of progress. It seemed that we had found the place Carter would be born. Within 20 mins or so he was crowning and the excitement built. I don't know where Amy got the energy for each push but somehow even after 3 hours of pushing she found energy for the next one. Not once did she say she couldn't do it and I will forever admire her for it. At 9:38 am Carter's head came out and he tried to take a few breaths.


I guess that babies take their first breaths when they are all the way out because the birth canal squeezes everything out of their lungs. He still had stuf fin his mouth and lungs and when he breathed in he started to choke. Diane told Amy that Carter needed to come out right then and that she need to push non-stop. Diane worked on Carter to help and as soon as the shoulders cleared he flew out and pooped all over her.


Within seconds he was laying on Amy and it was wonderful. They cleared his mouth and nose he began crying. A few minutes later he was nursing. I never realized how quickly you could love someone so much. It was such a wonderful thing having Carter at our house. It was as relaxing an environment as is possible for Amy and Carter came out undrugged and very alert. He was completely ours immediately. Diane made everything better than we had ever imagined.
 

Carter's Birth Story

January 30, 2006 7:59 PM

 
 
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